How do you know? When does it become obvious that someone is or isn't right for you? What does that even mean? John couldn't tell the difference. At least that was his experience this far into his 40 years of life on this earth. These questions bounced around in his head, almost driving him away from women all together. But he was a red-blooded male would couldn't resist getting caught up in the charm of a beautiful woman.
John usually felt that he could stat answering the first two questions about six months into the relationship. Which was close to the worst time. Long enough together that there is some real bonding, but short enough that there is still some of the newness and excitement of the unknown. It was usually a pivotal time in the relationship, when both parties realize that they are going to have something real invested in it if they stay in.
Occasionally, the decision would be made for him. Non committal females are more common than you'd think. At least in John's experience. Maybe it really was just him? What was he doing that scared them off? That sent them in other directions searching for new and different experiences.
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